The Mehndi (or Henna) party is a pre-wedding event to celebrate the bride applying mehndi to her hands & feet. All are welcome to come. There will be many Mehndi artists at this event so everyone will get a chance to get their mehndi done!

Fun fact: The bride typically hides the groom's name in her Mehndi for him to find!

Milni means "to meet" or "introductions" and is a celebration of the two families coming together. Here the Groom's family and Bride's family will exchange gifts as a warm welcome to one another.

Colour palette: Greens (think lush Goan jungle!)

Feel free to wear indian, indo-western or smart-casual.

The Haldi, also known as the Pithi ceremony is a ritual common at Indian weddings. It is celebrated before the wedding and is where close family and friends (that's you guys) come together to apply turmeric paste (Haldi) on the bride and groom's face and body.

The Haldi is done to protect the happy couple from any evil spirits. Turmeric is also used as a natural beauty remedy to purify and detoxify the skin (and will be way cheaper here than Covent Garden!)

Colour Palette: All things yellow and orange.

Feel free to wear indian, indo-western or smart-casual but bear in mind the ceremony can get messy so nothing too precious! 

1) Should I wear Indian?
You are more than welcome to but as it can get messy, only wear Indian clothes you don't mind spoiling (just in case!)

2) Can guests get involved in the Haldi ceremony?
Absolutely! This ceremony is fun for all the family (and friends). We would be thrilled to have you all take part.

3) Will there be food?
You know, we're almost offended that you'd even ask... Of course! Lunch will be served on the lawn, right where we're having the ceremony.

The Sangeet translates as "sung together’" in Sanskrit or "song" in Hindi. Historically, this event would be for the women on both sides to get together, sing folk songs and dance before the wedding. Nowadays, it's celebrated by the couple’s full family and friends to dance and party before the wedding itself.

You know those insane choreographed dances you saw when you looked up 'Indian Wedding' on TikTok/Youtube? Imagine that but far less well executed.

There are only two rules for outfits for tonight: 

    1. Dress colourful
    2. Make sure you can move!

Indian attire is encouraged but honestly anything bright and fun works!

The Baraat:

This is where the fun begins. It's time for the Groom's grand entrance! The word Baraat is derived from Sanskrit word Varayātrā (वरयात्रा) literally meaning groom's procession. This is the time for Kav's friends and family to bring the noise and lead him to the venue in style!

Once the Baraat party arrives it's up to Chit's side to welcome them and begin the proceedings. This signifies the union of the two families as members from each family greet and welcome one another.

The Main Ceremony:

Once the initial fun and games are done you'll be invited to take your seats for the main event! Chit will then be led to the 'Mandap' - this is the main stage where the religious ceremony will be held. The Pandit-ji (Priest)  will lead Chit, Kav and their families through the ceremony and will also be explaining the meaning of the different rituals as he goes along (don't worry, you don't need to study ahead). During the ceremony, the parents of the bride place Chit's hands into Kavi's hands as a gesture of their future lifelong partnership.

After the ceremony, you will be invited to take photos with the bride and groom in your assigned groups!

This is the time to bring your A-Game!

We would love it if everyone would be able to wear formal Indian attire but suits and dresses are more than welcome. 

If you are wearing a dress of any kind, please avoid wearing pure black or pure white.

1) Where can I get formal Indian outfits?
For those of you in London, Southall is a great place to start and is right on the Elizabeth Line. If you need some guidance on where to start please reach out to either of us and we can help out.

2) Can I join in the Baraat?
Absolutely! The entire Groom's side is encouraged to get stuck in. The Bride's side will wait to greet the Baraat in the Courtyard.

3) How hot is it likely to be during the ceremony?
Average daily highs are around 32C/90F and Goa can be quite humid in January! We will do our best to keep you as cool as possible with the ceremonies mostly in the shade and fanned where possible. That being said, fur coats and bomber jackets are not advised.

4) Is there alcohol served?
No, alcohol will not be served during the religious ceremony during the day. The bar will open during the Reception in the evening.

Join us for the grand finale! This is where we'll have one last boogie, celebrating with our favourite foods, friends and family. If you have any song recommendations for the DJ... please keep it to yourself ;)

You're more than welcome to stay in what you wore for the main wedding but we plan to dance all night so dress accordingly!